The question of who is more important?
Decision making is a very important aspect of a man’s life, and whether we like it or not we all make decision everyday, consciously or unconsciously. It is popularly said that everyone’s destiny is at the mercy of decision, and our decision will either make us or break us, so you really need to pay more attention to those ones that are important and beneficial.
Twenty years from now, you will be more disappointed by those things that you didn’t do, than those ones you did.
Verbal declaration is not going to bring things to being, a little action taken is better than mighty words spoken without result.
Decisions are inevitable, therefore it is better to keep taking actions. Let me also say it is not enough to take action, you must also ensure that you are taking the right one at the appropriate time.
For a while now, I have been looking at a better technique that will help us make a better decision at the appropriate time, and I came up with this question
'Who is more important?'
I came across this question in Tony Robin’s book and it has been very helpful to making a better decision fast. Let me give some illustration: Have you have every found yourself in a situation where you were about to make an investment decision? Next time you do, ask yourself this question 'who is more important?' Is it the profit or myself ? This question will make you realize that it is better to consult the expert on that field, so that you will not take an action you will later regret. Maybe someone did something really bad to you, and for a while you try to let it go, but the bad feeling keeps coming back; ask yourself this question 'who is more important?' Is it my feelings that is more important or those people? As soon as you realize this you will learn to forgive them not because they deserved it, but because you deserve peace.
Trying to buy things like cloth or drug for example, maybe the attendant offered you a drug that is of low standard, and you know but you intend to buy it because it's cheap; ask yourself this question 'who is more important?' Is it the money
or my health that is more important? Am sure that will help you to make a good decision.
In the same way, let's say you had a stressful week in the office; you’ve been working back to back
on a particular project trying to meet a deadline and you know that you need to rest and you can't seem to find a reason to; take a minute, pause and ask yourself this question 'who is more important?' Is it my job that is more important or my health? And am sure this question will show you what to do.
The bottom line is that you feel good. Feeling good is the end result of taking the right action, if you have ever bought something, and later discovered that it's not the right thing, then you will know what I mean.
Feeling good is always the aim, when you feel good, that is when you are motivated to do the things you love, relate better with people and also that is when you can do business.When you don’t feel good, negative thought, depression and stress will fill you heart, but we at MIKE ANI want you to feel good, feel good about yourself and your environment all the time, so that you will always make a better decision.
Thank you.
