FORGIVENESS @ A SPEED OF THOUGHT
‘’Forgive others not because they deserve it
But because you deserve peace’’
-Taylor swift
There are many times in our lives when someone did us wrong, situations like these hurt us so badly that we begin to ask ourselves if we actually deserve to be treated that way, and we begin to ask questions,
Why would this person do this to me after all that I have done for him?
Why was my project not selected? I thought I had the best idea?
Why will people around me not believe3 in my dream? Is it because I don’t have anything to show for it yet?
Is it because am better than him?
Is it because he is richer than I am?
It is easy to continue to ask ourselves why? Seeking to get answers to our questions, but what is more important is to learn from areas where we ourselves did wrong and move on.
Sometimes it can be very difficult to forgive others most especially if it’s a close friend, the thought of what they did in the past keeps coming back as soon as you meet them, resulting to bitterness of the mind. The real truth is that they hurt you and it is important to forgive them and let it go totally.
Forgiveness doesn’t make you right, It makes you free.
They have hurt you once don’t allow them to hurt you twice.so forgive them not because they deserve it but you deserve peace, you deserve to feel good because feeling good cannot be valued with money, so forgive them what is done is done we cannot do something about the past , but we ac make sure it never happen again.
If someone left you don’t continue to feel bad and wondering if you can still make it, understand that their time is up that is why God lets them go, if you will really need them God won’t have allowed them to go. Move on and God will bring better people in to your life.
May be you apply for a contract but it was given to someone else even though you deserve to be given that contract, don’t be discourage that is one closed door, God will open more doors even greater doors that will be more rewarding.
In a situation where a loyal customer decided for no reason to patronise someone else , after all your effort to please that person, don’t continue to feel bad and continue to worry over it instead ask God to bring better customers to your store.
Remain joyful better customers are coming, stop conpaling about what didn’t work out instead continue to give a give service to your existing customers and please don’t transfer that aggression on other customers
God command us to forgive, first forgive yourself for all the mistake you made in the past, forgive others that did you wrong forgive God said 70*7 times that means 490 times in every 24 hours.
The past is called the past for a reason and we cannot change the past but you can do something about now, stop focusing on the past let your attention be on the future. If they have hurt you yesterday that is the past, don’t carry yesterday on today’s agenda
Everyday carries a new opportunities to do better than the previous day, new opportunities to become a better you, new opportunities to recover all you’ve lost so let go of what didn’t work out yesterday, today provide a better opportunity that things will work out embrace it.
